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virginity
i hd relation wth a guy whom i luvd d most...n shared physical intimacy with him ...he used 2 hv sex forcibly without my consent...now its been 1.5yrs that we broke up...i ws damn loyal to him n even rite nw cannot even think of any1 else as my husband..
my parents r lukin 4 a suitable match 4 me so as 2 gt me mrried nxt year...
i dnt want 2 cheat on my husband..but i realy cant admit dat i hd such a past....
kindly help....wil he evr cum to knw my not being a virgin?? wt if i tel him honestly evryth abt my past....? wt if he breaks up d marriage??
ill b ruined completely...
kindly advice
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If your husband breaks up the marriage because you were raped, then he is not a good person to spend the rest of your life with.
A good husband will understand that you have had a rough past, and that you want to experience sex as a loving, consensual act. He wouldn't hold someone else's lack of control against you.
Then again, cultural boundaries could make it an issue. If that is the problem, then don't worry: he won't be able to tell unless you tell him. The usual way of telling if a woman is a virgin or not doesn't really work: her hymen could be broken riding a bicycle, riding a horse or other ways.
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