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Am I still in love with him?


Question Posted Monday December 13 2010, 8:16 pm

My ex and I dated for a year. He broke up with me last May (7 months ago) we didn't really talk much after that. Of course i was devastated and cried myself to sleep a lot and was always in a bad mood. But then I found another guy and we are currently dating. We are dating now for about 3 months. My ex and I have gotten in touch again and I find myself thinking about the memories we had a lot. I also cry about them too because I miss them. I miss the memories. But I'm not sure if I miss him. I think I might. I know it's not fair to be thinking about my ex while dating my boyfriend... But can some people give me their opinions on what they think- if I'm still in love with my ex or not? Does it sound like I am? If I'm crying about the memories and missing them?

And just to clear this up, I'm happy with my current boyfriend. He's not a bad boyfriend at all. I'm happy with him and he's so great. But Im also thinking about my ex. What does this mean? What do I do?


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Xui answered Monday December 13 2010, 9:23 pm:
1.) Your ex boyfriend broke up with YOU

From the sound of it, You are grieving the memories you and your ex boyfriend shared together. 7 Months ago is a long time and you stated you two have began talking again...A possibility, Your ex could envy you. You moved on, Your happy. Sometimes we need to except the past is the past, You said yourself your happy, Your best bet is to focus on you NOW, Your current relationship. As long as you have contact with your ex the pain will drain you, Memories will always be there. I always say toss the exes, It's less drama that way and easier to move on.

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