im almost 16 male and im gay i havent come out yet but i have fallen for this guy weve become really close that last few months but im a bit nervous to tell him im not sure if hes gay but he seems to like me he smiles at me we spend a lot of time together i havent told hes real friendly towards me i really want to see if he likes me
do i tell him or give him signals to show that i like him how do i go about it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Gift Giving? Uniqueme answered Sunday December 12 2010, 6:26 pm: Well just be straight forward. Tell him randomly "You know, i'm gay." His reaction is key. Does he wink? Does he shrink back? Does he smile? Does he nod? All of these are signs of how he responds to it. With any luck he'll tell you he is gay. After you tell someone you are gay, they will confess what they are to you. If he tells you he is gay, confess your feelings to him.
BUT if he doesn't tell you he is gay and he still seems like he holds interest in you he may just be scared. So drop hints here and there. Touch his shoulder lightly when he says something funny, etc. He'll get the hint then and may tell you he likes you and that he is also gay.
I wish you the best of luck!
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