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Hey its the 18/f to 15/m boyfriend agian
You just answered my question about his mom thinking we're having sex when we aren't. The only problem with driving somewhere is we're usually with his friends and I drop them off about 4 houses down the street, so it's not easy to just drive somewhere or leave really early because they all don't want to or let alone understand why we want to. Sometimes we do drive off somewhere but not very often. I just don't think what we're currently doing is bad. Our bodies are designed this way for sex and back in the times of the bible when everyone waited till marriage they were our age not 25. So for us to be waiting is a really hard task and I think its a really good thing. I just want her to see that but I'm not sure how to tell her that and dont know if I even should because if she wasnt suspecting anything and I'm just being paranoid then she might start suspecting for no reason.
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A lot of parents probably think when their kids have a bf/gf then they're having sex. I'm a little curious just how far you've gone with this boy because if you've given him a bj or a hand-job, then his mom might consider that a form of sex. Or, if he's been down on you, that could be considered a form of sex also, even though you haven't had him inside of you yet. If he's scared to talk to his mom and you're a little scared too, then the both of you may want to sit down at breakfast or lunch some day and just start talking about random stuff and work your way up to what you need to tell her. The stuff you do tell her doesn't have to include everything you've done but maybe a pg version instead of the r rated one. Now about your friends that hang out with you. Have your bf tell them that his curfew got changed to an hour earlier and then you can drop them off and have the extra hour to drive somewhere more private and you can enjoy your time alone and still have him home early to make his mom happy. Hope you let me know how things are going and good luck.
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