Question Posted Wednesday November 24 2010, 8:37 pm
I really like one of my good friends im 16 male and im gay ive had feelings for him for awhile but im nervous to say anything not sure how he will reacti dont wanna lose him as a friend and im not sure if hes gay do i just ask him? im unsure what to do i really like him do i flirt with him or just talk to him how do i go about it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Wednesday November 24 2010, 11:17 pm: hey there,
Okay well is your guy friend straight first of all.. does he know your gay?
this is a situation that you need to handle with caution. If your friend is straight and doesnt know you are gay and you hit on him chances are he will freak out especially if you flirt with him.
I would advice you to avoid pursuing your already guy friends as it will just complicate things in the long run.
Even if your friend knows your gay it will put him in an awkward position if you hit on him.
If he on the other hand is gay then by all means go for it :)
Hope this helps.. best of luck
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