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I want to talk to my ex...
Okay...So my ex and I broke up at the end of summer. I'm dating a new guy now but I don't realy like him and I feel liek I might still like my ex... See I want to talk to my ex. After a whole mess of things he tried to apologize to me at the end of summer but I didn't really want to hear it and I gues I forgave him but it was one phone call and he went back to being a dick and igonring me... and thats not what I want. I want to talk to him. face to face. After he dumped me in a text and we only talked about it over the phone all I want is to just sit down with him and talk it out because I'm not happy. I'm still hurt abotu what he did to me and I just want it to go away and I want to be happy and I feel like that won't happen until we're friends. Or I don't knwo... there just HAS to be something better than this. I don't know what to do or how to bring this up because I think that he thinks that I'm happy and okay or at least he doesn't care... and I don't know I'm super confused... What should I do??
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Okay the first thing I will say to you is if you don't care very much for this new guy please please leave him. Its not good for you because your fooling yourself and its definately not good for him either.
It seems to me like there is obviously still feelings there for your ex whether they are good bad or indifferent you need to deal with them.
Jumping into new relationships straight away will just complicate things. I think you need time by yourself to think about everything that has happened. I don't know what your ex did but dumping you by text was pretty low in my opinion and you deserve much better then that.
you seem to just want some sort of closure from all this. Please don't feel like you need someone who hurt you in your life to be happy!
First you need to decide okay am I still in love with my ex.. If so should I be?
seems like a stupid question to ask yourself but deep down youl know the answer if hes only going to cause you pain.
Once you figure out what you actually want from this guy then you should arrange to talk to him face to face like you said.
Personally I think you should just be friends as all this guy seems to be causing is confusion. you don't need stress and bullsh!t in your life.
Hope this helps and I hope everything works out for you :)
best of luck & much <3
Jess
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