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im changing
17 f
So this year my life has changed a lot. I lost a lot of weight and kind of grew into my body. Not to be cocky or anything but I got a lot more pretty and just over all matured. From this I've gotten a lot more attention and my social life has boomed. I go out practically every night and am always doing something with people. But now I'm starting to notice that I don't like being alone. I use to not care at all and in fact actually liked just chilling by myself. But now I can't stand it. I feel so bored and worthless when I'm just sitting at home alone. And its kind of making me sad cause I feel like I might be losing myself. Idk I now have everything on the outside going exactly the way I want it, but now I feel empty on the inside. I guess I'm just looking for some advice on how to feel better.
Any advice would be great!
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Being popular,hanging out and having a lot of friends is cool but being yourself is even cooler. If you feel like you are losing yourself then you know that you are not doing what you think is right for yourself. If you dont care if your alone then that means that you ccan be yourself you are your own person but always remember that you can be alone and be yourself just like at the same time you can hang out with friends and be yourself. What im trying to say is just be yourself and not what your friends want you to be.
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Hey,
Know that you have to love yourself before others will love you. To feel that sense of greatness, you have to do the things you love. So if you've been wanting to get your hair done, do it. If you want to soak in a bubble bath, do it. If you want to go swimming, buy a new pair of shoes, take care of a pet, dance around in your room, listen to your music kind of loud, bake cookies, paint your nails with polka dots, sing, laugh, visit a friend, make new friends.. nows the time to do it! Its boring because you aren't keeping yourself occupied. Find the things that spark your interest and get out there! Go for a walk in the park, go rollerblading, throw rocks at a lake/pond, check out a gym, get active, read a new book, visit a new place, see something different, reach for the stars, accomplish your goals.
I felt like you until I noticed, we cause our own sadness. Put a smile on your face, think positive, talk to people, and always be true to yourself. Only you can discover what makes you happy inside, start searching now :)
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