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Outskirts of a friend group
I am on the total outskirts of a friend group in college. THe reason i started even joining this group was because of the sorority i joined. Its not that i'm concerned they don't like me (i know they do) and like if i asked them what they were doing, or where they were pregaming i know they would be like "oh here....comeee" and like totally mean it. but they don't texttt me first to be like we are pregaming here or we are going out to dinner here etc. etc. Also they have a bbm group that i'm not in.
How do I handle this situation?
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It sounds like these people are not really your friends, they just feel like they have to invite you when you ASK because you are in their sorority. making friends in college can be a very difficult thing to do, but you are not alone. However, befriending These girls isn't going to make you happy. trust me, this will eventually become clear. do you want to go through college with this group of people who isn't even nice enough to let one more person really in? No.., you don't. And if you keep trying, this is what is going to happen. Don't be afraid to talk to people in other groups and in your classes. Make friends on your own, outside of your sorority, eventually, through sorority binding things you may come. To make some true friends I the group or your sorority, but until then, do not stress about it! Just try to make some friends who Will really care about you in the meantime.
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hello there,
why don't you talk to them about it, ask them if they could include you in more things, because you feel left out. If they were your friends they would feel a little bad and start including you a lot more, if they carry on the same way then time to get a new group of friends.
hope this helped
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