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Long labia..
20f.
I'm comfortable with my body but the only thing I'm not comfortable with is my labia. It's longer than normal ..which makes me SOOO unbelievably self-conscious. Even if I feel comfortable with a guy and want to have sex ..I just can't get over this. Yeah maybe they won't care ...but in my head it's such a big deal. Girls, you should know when you feel self-conscious about something it ALWAYS gets to you no matter what anyone says. I don't know what to do. I shouldn't be afraid to have sex because of this, but I don't want any guy to be grossed out :(
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I know where you're coming from. I also am self conscious about many things about myself, and some of these things (intimate or not) people might not even notice! We all come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. I personally feel that if a guy pushes you away JUST because of a longer labia, he's obviously not the right guy to be having sex with. Assuming that you're not sleeping around with every guy you see, of course. So relax, be confident in who you are, and I;m sure the next guy won't care. Have fun!
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I'm quite a bit older than you and maybe my thoughts might not be what you looking for; though I will offer them anyway as I was once your age.
Just what is normal? If you ask a guy he will tell you a guy with a big long, thick penis is normal. If you look at medical evidence the average vagina can only accommodate about 6", so is that what the normal length of a penis should be.
The nice thing about the human body is we are all different. So you have a longer labia; big deal. All that means is there is that much more to suck an nibble on during oral sex. Unless the longer labia causes you pain or other problems during sex I wouldn't worry about it. IF some boy should say something about it in a derogatory way he is not only a fool but sexually inexperienced.
Enjoy what you have, you have been blessed with a very special sex organ. as I said if you are not having any pain or other problem during sex caused by your labia just relax and let your guy enjoy you.
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