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Where exactly is your hymen?
I was thinking of having sex and read something about how the guy is going to have to break my hymen but most people just say it's popping thier cherry. So, like, where is the hymen? Is it like up inside my vagina some place? I use tampons and never hit anything in there that I would think a boy would have to break to have sex with me. And does the guy break it with his hands or fingers first or what? I mean, obviously if it's something that you have to break before you can have sex then I'd have to tell him so he knew what to do right?
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The hymen is a funny piece of tissue near the opening of the vagina. It can come in many different shapes and forms. The most common is a small flap-like crescent. As a girl uses tampons, she will stretch her hymen out a bit. Running, sports, various life activities can stretch it as well.
Now, since you can get a tampon in, you shouldn't have too much pain or bleeding during your first time, providing your partner is slow, careful and listens carefully to your requests to be more gentle.
It's called popping the cherry because of the blood factor. It occurs during penetration of the penis into the vagina. The hymen won't exactly break. It may tear a little, which is where the blood comes from. Or it may just stretch a lot, which would be a little uncomfortable, but blood-free.
Things that can help are lots of foreplay and deep breathing to relax you. Lubricant can ease your first time as well, and make it a smoother experience. Also, make sure you're on birth control AND your partner has a condom, or you'll just be back here asking if you might be pregnant ;)
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well the first time i ever had sex . it did hurt for a lill while . beacuse my vagina whole was tight and he did pop my cherry . if you decide on having sex with this guy . be very safe , and it will hurt for a lil but trust me its worth it. when you do decide . be very safe . use a condom and when ur hymen brakes . youll blead a little but its all natural . have fun (;
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