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getting him to notice me
16/f
i like this guy a lot. i think hes very attractice inside and out.
well im not the prettiest girl, but im ok. im a little heavier but im curvy.
i really want him to like me. hes laughs at things i say and he talks to me.
please name ways i can get him on my good side and ways to flaunt it.
thanks.
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Hello.
Okay so I'm assuming this is a school crush but I could be wrong. I'm also assuming you have classes with him.
Now I'm going to pretend that I am a guy. Guys like girls that are smart, confident, friendly, and attractive.
*Make efforts to talk to him. It doesn't have to be anything major. Saying "hello," "what's up," "did you do the homework?" or anything else that can create small talk is a good idea.
*Tell him about your day. OMG I found a lost puppy, I found a dollar, I tripped walking up the stairs, etc. Anything that is semi-interesting/funny would work. You don't have to share embarrassing stories if you don't want to, but I like to (lol).
*Do you have a facebook? Be careful with this one. You can OCCASIONALLY "like" something he posts, comment on something he posts, ask him a question, etc. If you overdo this then it may seem like you are a bit creepy. But a little bit of attention will make him think you're nice/have things in common.
*If you see him in the hallway, class, or anywhere else, smile! :D You can also say hi, and stop to talk to him.
*Look over at him and if he sees you smile. A light smile will look cute and thus attract attention. (Do not stare at him all day.)
*Participate in class. It will make you seem smart (which you are) and will make you seem confident (which you also are.) Smart and confident girls are very likable.
*Dress cutely. Get a cute haircut. Put a bow in your hair. Looking cute will immediately attract attention. This doesn't mean that the guy will only be interested because you are cute, but it can certainly make the difference between his seeing you as a friend or more. Dress in a way that makes YOU feel confident, pretty, and flirty. Yay!
*Be nice to other people in front of him. Okay again, niceness is attractive. If you are helpful to other students in class (like helping them with the homework) or in the hall (for example helping someone pick up their things if they accidentally drop them) then he will be impressed by you friendly demeanor. Besides, everyone likes nice people, so this a good quality to have regardless of needing to impress a crush. (Perhaps you should lay off of being "nice" to other guys in front of him. He may then think you aren't interested in him).
*Ask him in question if you sit next to him in class. Or if you are able to get his phone number somehow you can call and ask for help on something. (DO NOT ask stupid questions that you already know the answer to. It is best to make yourself look intelligent. Dumbing yourself down in not cute.) Asking him to revise your work on an English paper or possibly checking your answer on a math problem with him are both safe bets. :)
Remember: People like people who like them and people like people who are like them. Being nice to him and finding common interests are the surest ways to his heart.
This is all from the perspective of a female so take from this what you will.
Take care and, of course, GOOD LUCK :)!!
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