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First Day of school 8 or 9th
My first day of highschool ( freshman ) is coming up on the 8th or 9th and its a small school but im afraid of getting harrassed like in the 6th 7th and 8th grade... what do I do? im very shy and nervous I cant even answer a question in this town without someone making fun of me like if i accident answer it wrong or something...
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first of all, you need to think about what it is about you that people don't like. for example, some people have poor hygiene or don't bother matching their clothes or just make silly comments that don't make sense. these are definitely things worth changing. second, you need to think about the types of things that other people like. it's easier to make friends when you show that you care about other people and the things they care about. maybe it's sports. maybe its television. who knows. pick a group that you feel you can most closely relate to and work on befriending them. making friends takes work!
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i understand how you feel. when i was in middle & high school i had very little self-confidence and that was why i got made fun of. I cared way too much what other people thought of me. But sometimes you can't let other people get to you. for example i was in a similar situation at work. There were a few gossipy co workers and while we were at a meeting i noticed that whenever i would ask a question they would start laughing at me. I realized later on that they did this because they knew it bothered me.
My advice is to just be yourself and don't worry about what other people say about you. Remember they're jealous and insecure, and they want to see how much they can hurt you. Whenever they're mean to you just smile at them. Kill them with kindness. It always works. You should also write down all the qualities you have on a piece of paper to help your self-confidence. Good luck. I hope i helped.
Nikita <3
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Well , just ignore it , they are just in a state of like not being able to control what they do ? If it's guys maybe they like you ,maybe you show that you care about how much they hurt you , this makes them do it more. Just ignore it and walk away don't let it get to you , your better then them. Plus , there will be a lot more people there since your going into freshman MEANING NOT many of them are going to go and harass you , if they do go to the councillor , tell a friend , or your parents or something , you can't leave it like this because it will get worse and you need help. Please do something. Just do what you can do best. My advice for you is go and see what happens , if they still do even though all that time , I really want you to go and tell someone , you can't let that be a problem for you .
Good luck Girl : )
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