It's pretty disturbing that you include "Grandma" with the "slut" term. Since my grandmother from my father's side was murdered when I was young and my grandmother from my mother's side died of tuberculosis when my mother was young, I will assume you are talking about your own grandmother. If you are not talking about your own grandmother then you have obviously sent this message to the wrong person.
Being in the psychology field, I suspect you have a bit of a torn home-life. If your grandmother slept around a lot when she was in her younger days it can very well disturb the entire family later. I highly suggest you sit down and talk with your grandmother one-on-one about this mental problem you're having over her past. She may offer some apology of some sort--after all, she is an adult now and may see the error of her ways.
If you're considering purchasing her a birthday gift and feel she is on the "slutty" side then I still suggest you talk with her about things. If you cannot bring yourself to do that but are wanting to find her an appropriate gift then give her something plain-yet-provocative. A great gift idea is a Chip 'n Dale Calendar. This way you won't be too uncomfortable but will still please her.
Thanks for the question! Please take the time to phrase your specific idea into a question formulation next time so that I know just exactly what you're asking. I had to sort-of guess here so I hope I've answered appropriately. Thanks. [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
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