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i feel terrible for cheating on him
so ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks now and i really like him hes amazing! but just a couple days after we started going out i cheated on him (had sex with my best friend..) and i feel terrible. it was such a mistake we were both wasted and i guess weve both had hidden feelings for eachother for awhile but i cant pursue that now cause of my boyfriend! but i dont know what to do cause i have such guilt whenever im with him i think about it :( i dont know what to do but i know if i tell him he will probably break up with me.
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you should think abiut which boy you really like. you should just rush and think about what happen with you and your best friend best you guys were drunk. you dont want to loose a good relationship over one drunk mistake. But If it is the best friend you feel for you should break break up with you boyfriend and if you want to be good friends with him still you should tell what happen between you and your best frined because you dont wannt him finding out from someone else.But What happen you must remember you should always do what makes you happy and what best for you because your the one that will have to live with choose's
signed yasmine remember your life your choose dont make it out of guilt make out of whats best for you heart ...
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Well the first thing you need to do is stop and think about which one you actually like. You feel guilty about cheating on your boyfriend because it was wrong. Now, I'm not excusing it but hey, it happened. The only way to right it is to think about your relationship with your friend and boyfriend. If you have feelings for your friend and you feel like you can't peruse him because of your boyfriend... that may mean that you don't truly like your boyfriend and you really want to peruse your friend.
I don't know if that's the case but if it is, it isn't fair to your boyfriend. And in that case you should tell him the truth and break up with him. You obviously don't want to hurt him but if you'd rather be with someone else it's the relationship is basically a lie, and I know you just be figuring out your feelings but please don't lead him on! If it really was a mistake and you do really like your boyfriend then you need to figure that out and tell him the truth. It might be hard and he may break up with you but it is notttt a good idea to start or continue a relationship with this inside you. It will eat you up and eventually effect your relationship so you might as well deal with it now. But only you can decide what to do! I hope I helped! Lemme know how it goes :)
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