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setting the mood
my friends boyfriend is conservative and they dont have the guts to make the first move to kiss each other, how should she make the move on him (since she knows hes not going to do it)?
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Hey there,
One way she could do it is to sit near him (say on a couch), get comfortable together (this is key), lean into his shoulders, make some sweet talk, then when he is gazing down into her eyes.. wait a few seconds then just go for it! Since they are already going out, I am sure he will take it as a pleasant surprise and eventually he may want to try and kiss her first.. since he will know how she feels. He might not want to initiate it right away, but after she does a few times, he will be sure to have more faith in himself making a move.
My boyfriend was quite conservative too, and once we both knew we felt the same way, it was fairly simple moving forward from there. Just know confidently that he is feeling it too and do not be afraid to show how you feel. Saying things like "I really like this time we have together" and him responding "I do too" (or something simular) will let you know he is feeling the same way.
Letting your flirty side out and giving him a sweet peck on the lips is nice too. You never know... he may end up wanting a bit more ;)
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