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How kinky am I?
lately i've noticed that i get off from being biten, smacked, and tied up. my boyfriend plays along but i think it creeps him out, he just won't say anything since i obviously enjoy it.
am i weird?
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
I am not going to say if you are or are not kinky for my views on sex is like my view on beauty which is; “it is in the eyes of the beholder”. To some people any type of sex other than the missionary position would be considered kinky.
What is important about sex is that both are consenting adults, hopefully you are adults, and that both partners are comfortable with what the other partner wants to do. A few examples would be say: water-sports; that is where one person pees on the other. If both agree it is only kinky to those who would never commit to do so. Spanking would be another form most people think is kinky. Who would want to add what most people believe is pain to something that is so beautiful. Yet many women say that some light smacks on their ass during rear entry and anal sex increase their pleasure, anal sex alone is considered kinky by many. Then there is Horse play, FemDom, MaleDom, BDSM, threesomes, foursomes and other group sex events are some of the things most of society consider kinky and would like to make illegal.
If you and your partner find the activity enjoyable with neither of you being injured by what you are doing; then my view is it not kinky from your standards. It is your standard by which you judge what is kinky or not. It is your standard as to what you judge what is enjoyable.
These are my views and they have lasted my wife and I well for over 39 years. I hope this helps answer your question.
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