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I spoke out and now I am shut out
byfriends sister is a drunk and harassed me she lost her marriage and friends and so on i told my bfriend about this and they no longer talk the problem he says that his mom is afraid of her so he went to stay with mommy but i saw the sister over there many nights he tells me that he has s o much going on with all thaat his sister does that he has to b there for mommy thats fine but wht take it out on me i told him that his sister is destroying family and eventually us her problem are not my problem and it should affect our relationship so i called him wanted to see him and found out that he stayed at a buddys if mommy was so afraid of her why did she spend the nite there andwhy werent you homeso i asked him and said he wont stay there as long as the sister is there he got mad at me and wont talk to me he said its none of my buisness what he does called me nasty names and i havent heard from him we been 2gether 7 yrs ive bent over backwards for him with the dwi the drugs i been ther for him right by his side thru it all and all these years hes done this before walked out when he felt like it i did yell back at him do i call and aploogize for that or wait it outi dont know he tells me that im so good to him and that im always there for him what do i do
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I wouldn't sit back and wait if i were you...you should call him and tell him how you feel get every thing all out in the open so he hears what you have to say keeping what your feeling to yourself isn't good to do plus you don't know when he'll call you or if he will you shouldn't have to wait he should call you by himself without having to make you wait tell him that you don't deserve to be shut out or ignored by him and for that matter being called nasty names you aren't a stranger to him your his girlfriend and you deserve to be treated better with respect that you deserve after everything you've done for him in the past and how you were always there when he needed you i think you should apologize for yelling at him people do and say things they don't mean when their angry make him realize that you didn't mean what you did and you'd like for him to accept your apology your only human not perfect you make mistakes just like him it would
be ashame if you lost him seeing as you've been
together for that amount of years(:
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