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Trying to move on
I was in a long and difficult relationship, and it finally ended. He left me, but wanted me to take him back, and I couldn't. I'm with someone new now, but my ex still lurks somewhere in the back of my mind. I can't get back with him because he will only ever break my heart, but I can't let go of the good times. How do I tell myself I did the right thing when I still hurt?
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haha wow, I am loving these questions. I just went through something similar not too long ago also. I am going to tell you what I learned and feel through this sittuation. I think you need to do what you think is right acctualy. I honestly wish that I never would have lost this girl. I did alot that hurt her and it was all a mistake. I have learned from all of what I did. She is also with someone new. Someone that I do not like at all at this point. But things just kind of happen. Everything always happenes for a reason. Sometimes good things can come out of bad sittuations. The only thing to do is just talk to this guy again and smooth things over. If it has been a while since you two have been together, then I think it is time to talk. But if he is like me, all he wants you to do is be happy. He wouldnt want you to hurt. If he is like me, he is sorry for all the things that he did and still dwells on it from time to time. If he is like me, then he has accepted the fact and wishes you alot of luck. Just be happy. You will be able to have more good times in the future with someone els. Maybe in the future you will meet back up. But only if you believe in fate. I hope that helps
Part two. I didnt answer a question from this section of yours. You say that you cannot get back with him because he will only ever break your heart? How do you know he will break it again? You really cant look at the past... although the past does build the future. But sometimes the one person that messed up in the past can control what could happen in the future. If they really love you and vise versa, then he will do anything to prevent anything from happening in the future that he did in the past.
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