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I have difficulty pleasing him orally
I am 27 and I've never had a problem with giving head before. I'm now with an older guy and it's simply been terrible. I try to apply pressure as i'm doing it and he says it's not enough. I mean, I apply so much pressure to my teeth actually began to hurt the sides of my mouth from sucking so hard and applying pressure. I am out of tricks. He wants he slow. So i do it slow. I don't know what else to do but it's driving me crazy, nothing works. Every once in a while it's feels ok to him but at those times he standing never laying or sitting. I am beginning to think because of his Diabetes and blood flow that there is something going on with him not me. But I will do whatever it takes to get it right. Does anyone have any advice on this? Please help!!
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its not you it has nothing to do with you and there is no way to technically to do it wrong so its all on him tell him if he doesnt like it you wont give it if he gets upset about it
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It's not you, and you need to release ownership of this problem.
You shouldn't do anything you aren't comfortable (even physically comfortable doing), and you need to stop taking this personally. It's very, very likely that his difficulty reaching orgasm has NOTHING to do with your skill at giving head.
Google 'death grip syndrome' and talk to him about his masturbation habits. You are doing him the courtesy of going down on him as well and as responsive to his needs as you are, the least he can do is talk about his solo sex habits honestly and commit to not making it even more difficult for you.
If the problem persists, ask him about seeing a doctor to talk it over.
For your own sake, stop giving him head when it's no longer enjoyable for you. When it starts to hurt you, stop. Realize you might not be able to 'get this right' and engage him in helping you find a solution that doesn't give you lock jaw. Turning yourself into a human vacuum machine is not a realistic, long-term solution.
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