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TOO MUCH BOY
My life is a mess. I am wayyy to focused on boys and it's basically ruined so many things. I try to focus all my energy on cheerleading which is very time consuming but I can't seem to make my mind get off of boys. My ex, this new boy, my bff (whose a guy) that I might have feelings for but likes my girl best friend, this OTHER new guy... its ridiculous!! I think about boys ALL time and its actually driving me crazy. Pleeeeease help me.
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You remind me of my sister in so many ways. :)
She was obsessed with boys. Boys were her hobby. She would make a game where she would see how many boys she could date at once without getting caught. She was so boy crazy, she lost interest in everything else. Her grades dropped, she lost her job, she started fighting with her mom, and she lost a lot of friends on the way. Now she is 19, still in high school, living at home, trying to make up time lost.
True story.
Now obviously you don't want that life.
So what do you do?
It's great that you have cheerleading as your hobby to get your mind off of boys. Smart move. :)
Maybe find another hobby that can help take your mind off boys at home. Make some more girl friends to distract you, and try to spend less time with your guy bff, because that can only lead to trouble. You should spend some time alone and try to figure out what you want out of life and spend all your focus on trying to acheive goals that will get you closer to your ideal life.
Let's face it boys are everywhere. There's no way that you can avoid them. But do they have to be your number one priority in life? Boys come and go, and will always be around. So don't waste the time you have now on them. Your young and still in highschool, so focus on school, goals, cheerleading, fam, and friends, and put your man hunt on hold for a while. When your older and out of highschool, guys will be lined up to date you. Afterall, guys love an independent women. :)
Hope this helps. Email me anytime.
Blessings!
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