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Can you wear a condom in the shower or pool?


Question Posted Friday July 2 2010, 11:34 pm

My girlfriend wants to have sex and I'm totally down for it. She said she has this fantasy thing of doing it in the shower or a pool. Lucky me, we have a pool at my house so both of these options are in play.

Now, I don't want to get her pregnant because that would be a big mess for us. So, I went out and bought a box of condoms today in anticipation that we'll be doing it tomorrow when she comes over to my house. We're both really excited about this. I was thinking about something though...

Can you wear condoms in the shower or in the pool? I mean, can you wear condoms in water? Because I don't want it to break or something and knock her up...


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Razhie answered Saturday July 3 2010, 2:17 am:
I'm sorry to be the one to break it to your girlfriend, but you shouldn't have sex in a pool. Ever.

Pools are full of chemicals and bacteria that should never be shoved deep into the vagina. Having sex in a pool is begging from an infection. Also - condoms are not tested in chlorinated water and are really quite sensitive to temperature. Too warm or too cold in the water could make them very, very likely to break.

Please, don't have sex IN a pool. It's a bad idea. If you want to do BY the pool, make sure both of your genitals are out of the water.

As for sex in the shower - this can be a problem for many people. You should avoid really hot water that might damage the condom, but the water that is there will wash away your girlfriend naturally lubrication as well as any lube on the condom itself. A silicone-based lube will solve this problem.

The other risk with water is that the condom getting stuck inside her... This is less common, but still a real issue with sex in the water.

I hate to be so negative, 'cause obviously it's great and important to entertain your partners fantasies, but sex in the water is riskier than 'normal' sex, especially when you bring condoms into the picture. If you want to give it a try in the shower, just be careful and know there are some risks.

Whatever else you do, please, please don't have sex in a pool.

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