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Dream Interpretation


Question Posted Friday July 2 2010, 1:00 pm

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Hey, Advicenators!

I need some help interpreting a dream because I think it is of great significance.

The dream begins with me in the backseat of a car with a 5-year-old kid driving. I was scared.

The next part of the dream seems of more significance. I dreamed that I was in my crush's living room (I've never been there before, though) and I am using his laptop. It is very similar to my own. There is no one else in the living room and I am sitting on the couch with a table in front of the couch and then a turned off television. I am using his laptop, logged on his account, and we are instant messaging. He tells me that he'll be here soon, etc. However, while we are IMing, more than twice, the laptop just logs me off for no reason!

At one point, two girls walk in wearing dark red dresses. They both sit to the right of me on the couch. One of the girls is pale (I don't recognize her) and she is REALLY mean to me! She calls me an asshole and is very rude. I was absolutely fuming, but I did not respond to her. The second girl is silent the whole time. She invited my crush to prom this past year and I was jealous, although he and I ended up spending the whole night together. She looked different though: thinner, different facial structure, but I could tell it was her.

Finally, he arrives, and we talk and cuddle, etc.

I've already looked up some of the symbols:
Laptop: need for communication
Couch: relaxation, also sexual connotations
Backseat: not in control of my life (disagree?)
Mean person: I'm too hard on myself
Red: lethargy; lack of energy (disagree)

But, (1) can someone please tell me the significance of the laptop continually logging me off in the middle of our conversation? It was very annoying, and I was afraid he would lose interest in me. A couple times, it was password-protected and I asked the pale girl what the password is accidentally, and she was REALLY mean and rude. Does it imply communication lapses and "boundaries" in our current close friendship? (2) Do the two girls represent his other potential love interests? The girl who went to prom with him will be graduating and at one point had a crush on him, but he definitely is not interested in her. The pale girl was wearing a really short dark red dress, but BOTH girls disappeared when he arrived, if this is of any significance.

Please note: I really like this guy and I want to pursue a relationship with him, which I think is very well possible.

Thank you!


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Additional info, added Friday July 2 2010, 1:08 pm:
"Dark red is a symbol of passion, greed, energy and anger." - http://www.experiencefestival.com/dream_dictionary_red.

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Matt answered Saturday July 3 2010, 11:07 pm:
It means you have way too much time on your hands and you need to give some of that to me. Dreams don't mean shit. <3

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snarky answered Friday July 2 2010, 6:49 pm:
I'd say you're reading far into what you've dreamed.

Although the subconscious DOES play a large part in what you're dreaming, usually dreams like this display insecurity to some degree.

The girls are not "potential lovers". I'm not Miss Cleo, but it's far more likely they're representing your insecurities within yourself. Maybe even representing possible jealousy.

All the symbols in your dream are reflecting internal fears - not necessarily reality. If you feel that there are communication barriers, then most likely there are.

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