is it safe to use? like is there some risk wearing this instead of a regular barbel? i'm just trying to go for the easiest/safest option. any input/advice?
French ticklers are for blow jobs. Really. That's the whole point in them having little soft things sticking up from the ball. The rubber bits help to "tickle" the sensitive parts of the penis and it's soft but slightly sticky, as rubber tends to be in these situations, so it feels good to the guy as it runs across the flesh.
Rubber things like this cannot be eaten with in. They will, naturally, stick to your food. They will tear and rip and you will swallow them. Trust me. I also have absolutely no idea how you would keep food from getting stuck in such a thing. You would be brushing you tongue, literally, after every single thing you ate or you'd risk having funky residue build up on some of the areas of it.
Stick with regular, round plastic balls. You can purchase plastic barbells that will help reduce the weight on the tongue and help the balls move out of the way of your teeth when you're chewing foods and stuff. You still risk cracking the ball or your teeth but plastic is the best choice at the moment, unfortunately.
The metal ones you won't break but you will damage your teeth if you accidentally bite down on them.
The plastic ones will break if you accidentally bite down on them too often or too hard and will still erode away your enamel a bit but not nearly as much as the metal.
Having your tongue pierced comes with the price of risking damage to your teeth. It's responsible that you're trying to find an alternative but, sadly, there isn't one that exists. You either take the chance or you don't.
I've had my tongue pierced for...gosh. Maybe 4 years now or more? Your best bet is to try to find small 14 gauged plastic balls to screw onto a 14 gauged plastic barbell. Make sure to always keep a spare in your purse or pocket because accidents happen and you will someday find yourself going, "I just broke it! Holy cow! I don't have a replacement on me...what do I do?!" Plastic won't last forever.
Nix the idea of the rubberized balls or french ticklers unless you're into giving head often. Even then, you'll want to put the french tickler on right before you start giving oral and remove it directly after. You really don't want to bite into something like that and have a chunk come off in your mouth. [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
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