So theres this guy and we are really good friends. he's a grade above me but we have some of the same interests. i like him, but he kinda sends me mixed signals. He also is really good friends with all my best friends, so i never know if he likes any of them... But i wanna know these mixed signals he sends me, are they really true. i also don't want it to be an awkward friendship because even though i like him, i still want to be friends with him if he doesn't like me back. i'm kinda stuck in a bad situation, please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AlexLobrano answered Wednesday June 30 2010, 8:10 pm: People always worry that if they like a friend and they tell them and they don't like them back, it'll get awkward. The truth is, things will only become awkward if you let them. If you tell him you like him and he doesn't feel the same, then you just move on like nothing happened, no big deal. If you get uncomfortable all the time around him after that, then things are gonna be awkward. As for your situation, since the guy is good friends with all of your best friends, you could have one of your friends ask him. That way, it might just look like they were curious if he liked you, and not that you wanted to know. And if you have the confidence, then just tell him you like him. Worst case scenario is that he doesn't like you back, so what? At least you'll know sooner rather than later and you'll be able to stop liking him and move onto someone else quicker. Good luck. [ AlexLobrano's advice column | Ask AlexLobrano A Question ]
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