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about my boyfriend...
Hey, you answered my question on "which guy?"...
I liked what you said, so I was wondering if you could help me now.
I haven't even talked to that other guy much...
And my boyfriend is having even more troubles.
Guess what, he got off home detention about a week ago. I was so happy... but then let down to hear that his parole officer found out he was skipping school to really hang out with people. He now has to go to court tomorrow, and he's saying that he is going to juvie for 2 weeks now.
He was supposed to sneak over tonight, because it's his last night he can for 2 weeks, but his friend has his bike. We tired everything to get a way for him to... but we never found a way, we couldn't get a ride or anything.
I've been IMing him for the past 3 hours. He was going to steal his dad's car and come pick me up, but his dad caught him and he made an excuse. So he's okay. Then he said "oh shit hold on" and I was like ok.. and he logged off. He never got back on and it's been over 30 minutes.
I am so upset and depressed and this is killing me. What am I supposed to do for 2 weeks without any talking to him? It's summertime and two weeks from now is like July 10th. That is insane. Is it right for me to be this upset? I'm in tears...
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Yes it's right for you to be that upset the way you are you've got to realize that he's your boyfriend the one you love and care about and not a stranger who you've never met before what your feeling is normal i'd give him some time i don't think he'd forget about your conversation seeing as he said hold on if he hadn't of said that and just signed off without giving you a warning he was going to do so or if he didn't say what he did then you'd have a reason to worry but seeing as it's been over 30 minutes that he hasn't signed back on i think you should call him and if another person answers that isn't him ask if you could speak to him and if you aren't able to then ask if the person can pass a message along to him and say what you want while he's gone you need to
try and be strong for both you and him even though
it won't be easy and will be tough to do right
now is when he needs you most he can't see you being upset so you've got to try your hardest to be strong for him and find strength also while he's gone find things for yourself to do keep yourself busy that way your mind isn't focused on
him and it's focused on other things time usually
flies and goes faster if your busy and aren't just
sitting around doing nothing also if you do happen
to speak to him i would tell him that his behavior
and the way he's acting is upsetting you maybe once he realizes what he's doing wrong and see's how it's affecting and hurting you he'll stop with the bad behavior and he'll start to be good(:
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