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whats wrong with him
me 13/f him 13/m now i know that you are a male but you have given me really good advice before so i wanna ask you this. it might be long. ok so there is this guy i have a MAJOR crush on. hes my neighbor and we go to school together. were both moving on to the 8th grade. and at the beginning of 7th grade he asked me out. i told him i wasnt aloud bc my mom dont want me goin out with my neighbors. so then we didnt talk for like 2 months. but now weere talking almost everyday and texting everyday. and whenever we wlak home together he touches me. first it was my butt but now its my boobs.so i know hes got a crush on me. so now that was the back story the resent stoory is......... we text all the time during the summer and we were texting one day and i asked him who his crush is and his reply was "chey i guess" and cheyenne isnt my name. i will continue thos story on another question.
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Hey, I don't think anything too serious is wrong with this guy. The thing is... he is very,very young and at this age a males hormones are pretty much acting up every single day from the time they wake up! the same applies to you in that you are still way too young and might get blinded by someone elses true feelings and intentions. This guy might not even want something too serious with anyone at all other than just touch females and get something more out of them if you know what I mean. Someone who truly cares,loves you and most of all RESPECTS you... will not go as far as to be touching you in inappropriate ways! you yourself no matter how you feel towards him should ask for respect and to be treated like the young lady you are. Trust me, the majority of what guys want at this age is to just mess around and don't really care at all. You have got to be careful and analyze peoples true intentions and should NOT be rushing into things at all. If it is pure love he feels for you he will like I said respect you, give you your space, take you out to dinner, take you out to just hang around town, have fun going to the movies or going to a fare but not doing anything inappropriate at all. Love is a beautiful thing wait until you really are sure (100% sure) that you have found the most caring, respectful and loving person to even think of going out with them. At this age you are a bit too young I say what you have to do now is just analyze/study the way guys are so in the future when you are more mature and ready to go have a boyfriend, you know exactly what type of guys to stay away from and avoid as well as what type of guys you are more like;y to date and go out with.
-Don't be blinded especially at this age please take it slow and don't get too excited and or rush into things
- like I told you LOVE is something beautiful that if truly pure, one needs to know who is truly worthy of their love by just waiting until a more mature age say... 17 0r 18 to make a final decision and start going on dates
-your parents are only going to want to protect you, trust me so don't get angry at them or anything they only want you to be happy and not get hurt especially at this young age.
- I say, Crushes are an amazing thing to have but once you analyze the person you have a crush on, you might find things that might turn you off... so know the person inside out and demand respsect at all times because you are worth more than what others might think.
I wish you all the best always and remember your ABC'! *Avoid Bad Company!- no matter if they give you butterfly's in your stomach- better to live happy and safe than to go through grief at a young age.! always take care of yourself and value you for who you truly are.
-trueadvice3
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