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Stuck in a fork.
so it's been a while. and a lot has happened. i stopped seeing my ex, and he still owed me money so he said he'd give it to me the first week of the spring semester and i said ok. so when the first week came.. he saw me but didn't say a word.. so i ignore it.. so my mom tries to talk to him.. and his "girlfriend" is all hell no. and soo then my mom goes to his house.. meets his mom, she finds out everything and rips his head off when he got home that night.. and so a week later my mom went to his house to get the money he had owed me..and he apologized to my mom and said that he wanted to apologized to me, and my mother had told him no that it was too soon to apologize, so he respected my mothers wishes..i didnt speak to him since december.. on thursday he IMed me and said he was sorry and that he missed me.. and i was being cold hearted but it felt good that he finally apologized..and he told me that he missed me.. and that he was soon going to break up with her.. and im like oh so im a rebound..and hes like no.. im like dont expect us to be friends now.. and hes like i know im not. and anyways, he has IMed me everyday since he apologized..and he wanted to come see me friday night because he missed me..and im like uhhh bad idea...and my mom is like let him chase you. and so.. then his facebook status went to single.. and his default his just him.. and hers is just her..im not sure what to do.. my friends dont approve obviously..and im not going to make myself completely availble.. but im stuck?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Friendship might be possible someday, just don't rush things. I'd stick with simply IM for a while.
I know you still have feelings for him, but he treated you badly. You went through some rough shit.
You don't want to repeat it all again.
He may not see it as a rebound relationship, but it kinda is. Nobody wants to be alone and he probably thinks you'll come running back to him in the end. Prove him wrong. Play VERY hard to get. In the end, he still treated you bad.
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