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Getting back close to your family I am adopted with my sister to an American couple. At 17 yrs old, I rebelled and left home. So my parents disowned me totally and will not speak or pick up my calls for 7 yrs. I just recently came back home for my mother's funeral. I am not close to my father and want to so badly and do not know how to go about. I feel like a stranger, like I dont belong to my family. I turned cold hearted and its quite hard to even speak to my father.
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ok well this is a tricky subject,
you could try and talk to him like small talk he may be upset as his wife just died, and he may need someone there,
try making small talk as i said just keep in contact ask how he is,ect. show him that you have grown up now and are no longer a kid and are easy going.
if he does not let you back into the family then thats just unfair and upsetting :(
but i hope it all works out for you, ]
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