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long distance best friend


Question Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 5:08 pm

So I am dropping out of college for family reasons and have to move back home 15 hours away. The love of my life is staying there. I guess we are boyfriend/girlfriend without the titles. We have talked about relationships and decided against it because we don't want to endanger out friendship, we are best friends before anything else.

Well, now that I won't be seeing him, perhaps even never again, I am at a complete loss of what to do. Even if we don't end up married or something, I've always seen him as someone who will be in my life forever, and now I'm scared that won't happen. He is not someone I want to lose. We have been through so much, and we were able to overcome everything. I fear this is the one thing that will overthrow us.

I mean of course we are going to keep in touch, but the distance will cause us to drift apart anyways I fear.

Any advice?


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cmccomb answered Saturday June 19 2010, 9:59 pm:
Well...The best advise to you would be to make sure that u finish your education. No matter what your relation ship may be. In this economy you can't afford not to get it. As for the love of ur life...things will fall into place, lay it on the line, if it works then great, if not then stay friends...the key is staying friends no matter what happens. If you love something let it go...if it comes back its yours. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be.

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