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Ring on a finger
My boyfriend and I were talking to each other online last night. He had his webcam and his microphone open. This was the first time that he opened it up for me at home, usually he opens it up while he's at work. Apparently he behaves better at work, in my opinion. He acted a bit different. Anyway back to the real problem. At one point during the conversation I noticed that he had a gold band ring on his right hand on his ring figer. So I asked him why he had a ring on his finger. It took him a minute to write back, on the webcam i saw he was looking around. So he wrote back and told me that it was his grandfather's ring and that he just put it on like 10 minutes ago. Now i also know that he wasnt on such good terms with his grandfather before he passed away, even though he still had respect for him. I also said I guess you must be the same size finger as your grandfather because it seems to fit you fairly well. And he disagreed saying that it was loose on him. So i asked him to hold up the ring to the camera so i could get a closer look. He didnt really do it. He just brushed through his face with his hand a little bit and said did you see it and laughed. I told him i couldnt laugh about the situation as he was. He said come on stop playing, i didn't get engaged. He said, if I did then you would be the first one to know about it because it would be you. And changed the subject like that. But I wasnt ready to change subjects just yet, so i said it looks very shiny too, it lasted good i guess. Or did you just get the ring. He said, no my grandfather gave it to my father first and i got it from him. I still didnt really understand the situation and I told him that. But he said, if you want i can tell you everything in detail, however he said it in such a manner that he made me feel like a paranoid person who doesnt have trust for their partner. So this time i changed the subject even though i was still wondering. So I said say something to the microphone i want to hear your nice voice. He said a couple of words but it was fairly low. I asked him why he was talking so low. He said stop making false accusations and i am not speaking low. So i told him to speak up then. So he talked a bit more and also said i love you. But it was still kind of low. He also had the lights closed if that has anything to do with anything. He started acting kind of hostile the rest of the conversation. A while later i told him i had to step out. We were saying bye to each other when he signed out while i was still saying bye to him. It's so confusing that im not even sure what to ask, a million questions keep popping up in my head. Why was he acting like that towards me after i asked him, was he being defensively hostile about it or was he just upset that i could think of such a thing? And should i believe his story about the ring? How should i handle the situation? Please help. Thank you...
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How has he been acting towards you lately?...Hm I find it awfully weird how you never seen this ring before! (That was a little bit of sarcasm on my part) A gold ring on his finger is extremely suspicious, He was acting weird and taking awhile to reply because you caught him red handed and he was covering his tracks by replying with excuses. If he was looking around, Clearly he is the one being paranoid. Either he is engaged or he is married. No man wears a ring and hides it from their spouse unless something is really sketchy. Give yourself some credit, You caught him. You caught him red handed, His actions also gave it away. Stop letting him fool you, You deserve better. All the clues were given too you, Let this ass walk right into his canines.
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