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What is blue waffle disease? And am I pregnant?
Hi, me and my boyfriend were making out out last night and we had sex. I've heard the saying "Poping the Cherry"? What does it mean? And I'm wondering if I'm pregnant becasue "STUFF" is coming out of my boobs. I heard it's called "Laxitating"? I'm only 13, so I feel like a slut..... am I? :(
Another question I have, What is blue waffle disease??? Please help me with these question and thank you... :)
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There's no such thing as Blue Waffle disease; it's just another urban legend of the internet. You can go to your school's health teacher or your family's doctor to confirm this.
All right, with that myth out of the way, let's move on to the next topic: your possibility of pregnancy.
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Oh wait, we need to explain what "popping the cherry" is, first.
Well, in sexual context, "popping the cherry" basically means "breaking the hymen." The hymen's location is pretty much the same place as the vagina opening.
Most people believe (this belief is wrong, by the way) that it "breaks" at your first penetration by an object (for examples: a penis, a sex toy, etc.)--that's when you see the blood when you first have sex. So an intact (not yet broken) hymen is the proof of purity (a virgin).
Well, that super-duper ancient belief is WRONG! Medically speaking, the hymen can be vary in shape and size, even thickness; one woman's hymen can be different from another woman's hymen. Some women's hymens can be easily tears by riding horse back, stretch, or even by tampons; others might have hymens that are so flexible that it moves aside during penetration. Some may experience pain, while others won't feel anything--not even bleeding.
More information:
Sex Info Online, University of California, Santa Barbara: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Sex Health Center, Discovery.com: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
You can also have a talk with your teachers or professors who are in the health department.
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All right, finally we can move on to your possibility of pregnancy. Oh wait, first, "laxitating," I need to make a few points clear.
What's "laxitating"? Did you mean "lactating"? Lactation also means "'STUFF' is coming out of [the] boob" (quoted you). If you really did mean to say "laxitating," my apology but I've never heard such a word. Sorry for being stupid :-(
I am not very familiar with this breast milk thing myself--never feel curious about it enough to look into it closely. So I don't dare to say for sure because I might be wrong. What I can say is that lactation doesn't just occur out of nowhere. During the pregnancy process, your body does NOT say "Oh look, there's no milk in the breasts! Let's make some!"; it only does this after you have given birth (I've no idea why).
So if you are sure that the "stuff" is supposed to be milk, there's something abnormal (not normal) going on in your body. It doesn't necessarily have to be pregnancy, but it's definitely something abnormal. I suggest you see a doctor if you can.
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Also, no, if you are honest about the time in which you had sex (which is "last night"), then it's definitely NOT an indication of pregnancy. Heck, the sperm might not have even reached the egg yet, never mind about fertilization.
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Now, onto pregnancy, for real this time. :-)
Okay, like I said before, it's still quite early to make any assumption. So I will put it like this:
Scenario #1: You two used one or more kind of protection.
--Depends on what you used. Go here for a list and explanation of most (if not all) of them:
Heath Department, University of Arizona: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Scenario #2: He ejaculated (came) inside your MOUTH or ANUS, or you two just had oral sex.
--Zero chance! Unless, UNLESS the sperms ACTUALLY touch the vagina (through second hands, clothes, toys, directly came inside, or whatever), there's no way on the planet Earth for you to get pregnant naturally (key word: naturally).
Scenario #3: He ejaculated (came) CLOSE by but NOT inside your vagina, or he came above your clothings
--Medium chance (still higher than using protections, but lower than ejaculating inside), there's still possibilities though. Pregnancy test is recommended
Scenario #4: He ejaculated (came) INSIDE your vagina and you two did NOT used any kind of protection.
--You have a very high chance of pregnancy--and STI (sexual transmitted infection) as well. Get ready for a pregnancy test!
You can either go to a doctor after six or twelve days after last night for a check, or you could do it at home. To do it at home, go to a local store and buy a home pregnancy test kits (it will check for the presence of hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin). Wait ONE WEEK after you've missed your supposed-to-happen period (for more accuracy), and use it.
Feel free to ask me more question, but remember that seeing a doctor is still the best option (even if it means your parents will kill you [hyperbolically speaking, of course, not for real]). This is a tough thing to go through, and . . . you know, you might want as much help as possible.
Good luck,
:-)
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