So my gf of a year left me 3 months ago for her ex who treated her like crap. Well I guess she realized things in tried commin back to me...so after a month I figured wed try again. Well we drink a lot well I would get scared/worried/upset and talk or bring up the past or her ex and we started kinda fighting/having spats a lot. Well saturday night out of the blue she said she was down in the dumps and just wanted to be alone. I scared me because I thought something bad was happening. She said no its not you have nothin to worry about. Well when I am home I get this gut feeling so I head back over to her apartment and she calls saying shes at her ex's because one of there friends is going into the army. She said she walked but she didnt she said our relationship is going down the drain. She said she wants to be single but has ben staying over there at her exs. I kno its hard and some of you will think its crazy but I do love her and want her back but what do I do? She couldnt even look at me sunday when I got my things from her place and still wont give me an explaination of why she did what she did. help please!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MissYMelisS answered Tuesday June 15 2010, 1:39 pm: Im so sorry, but you need to move on. I know its probably not what you want to hear hun, but she is probably back with her ex. If shes staying over there, and broke up with you after being around him, than its probably what is going on. I know you love her, but someone better will come along. If she left you for her ex after being with you for a year, shes obviously a very indecisive person.
My advice, find someone new. Someone who isnt going to leave you over and over again for someone who treats her badly.
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