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Boyfriend Is Acting Different
I have been dating a guy for two years. I am a senior in high school and he is too. Things have been wonderful. We love just hanging out together and spend lots of time together. We went to the prom and I have supported him through all of his tennis matches this spring and their run for the state championship. We took our relationship slow, but we have been sexually active for about a year. We just want to spend all our time together. Well, last month he asked me out and on the way home he told me that he "needed some space". I was shocked because I thought things had been going well. We had a terrible argument about it, and decided we would take a break. I didn't text or call him because he asked for space. He did text me a few days later and told me that he had made a mistake and he wanted to get back together. I said great! Since then things have changed. I have tried to be positive, but in the back of my mind I keep wondering if we are going to break up again. He texts and calls me, but we don't have sex like we used to. He doesn't want to. I want to be with him, but I can't keep wondering day to day if things will get back the way they used to. I want my old boyfriend back. I feel like we are at a standstill. My heart is telling me that maybe I should just tell him that he has changed and that I love the old person not the way he is acting now. He is so spacy and strange. He acts like he can't wait to get away from me. Any suggestions on what to do? Is there any way we can get past this feeling of disconnect?
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Yes I agree you need to talk to him. YOu need to ask him why did he really want to split up... And why have his behavior changed towards you... This may really be a bad sign... You have to get ready for the good and the bad... Because it could be a number of things... Maybe he's having family trouble or with friends, school, etc... Or maybe you guys really have grown apart.
Or maybe theres someone else in his life... The signs are there... He's not having sex with you anymore... And he doesn't want to spend time with you either... Those are clear signs that he could possibly be in love or involve with someone else... You need to keep that in mind and get perpared for the best or even the worst... I'm not saying that could be.... but it's a sure possibility... So a talk with him is really a must...
The best of luck to you and always
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