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Problem with ex
So here's my problem. I met a boy in September and we became friends. Then sparks flew and in November we started going out. But it wasn't until a month afterwards that I found out that his dad here is a real nut case. (His parents never married and he lives with his dad here and his mom is 2 provinces over.) Then things started to go sour when he came to school everyday really upset and distracted when he had bad arguments with his dad and broke things off with me. Then come 2 months later and we finally talked and it was like fate. After that day he calls me that evening and the day after that and we talk about what the hell happened. A week goes by without talking and then he phones again the day before yesterday and he said that when he was dating the 2 girls after me he still misses me and misses the fun time. What do I do about this?
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Well, first off it seems he was really stressed about his dad. Family issues can really affect people and make them act different and feel down. He probably didn't want to hurt you or put his problems on you, and that's why he broke it off in the first place. It seems like now he eiether regrets what he did.. or he just got screwed over by one of these girls and wants you back. You know him better than I do, so I'm sure you know what the situation is :)
Anyway, I know you don't want to hear this.. but it's your call. If you feel he deserves a second chance and that he's not going to hurt you.. and you have feelings for him, tell him because it seems like he wants to get back with you. But if you don't feel like he'll change.. or that he's going to hurt you again or use you, then let him go because you don't need that. See, I really don't want to influence you either way because it's how YOU feel that should decide. :] Do what your heart says, not what you want to do, and don't stop yourself. Talk to him and take things slow for now until you figure it out-there's no rush(: Sorry if this isn't much help, but I hope it gives you something to think about.. and I KNOW you'll make the right decision. :) Good luck with everything<3
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