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can u pls help me????
i need help. i have a friend that i am IN LOVE with. we are both 13. hes my neighbor. i know he likes me because he flirts with me ALL THE TIME. so my question is......how do i get him to ask me out. (ps he asked me out at the beginning of the year and i told him i wasn't aloud because my mom doesn't want me to go out with my neighbor. but im willing to hid it from my mom because i LOVE him)
so what should i do????
Thank you in advance.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Be obvious. At 13 neither of you really know a ton about dating or about the opposite sex. A big part of what you learn through dating is some of how the other gender thinks. This is especially important for us guys because while we work off mostly logic, women work off mostly emotion. Half of what you do makes no sense to us because we'd never do it ourselves and thus can't figure out why you're doing it.
What all this means, is that flirting, hints, and many other ways you might try to let him know how you feel are likely to sail right over his head. At 13 I didn't have a clue what was really going on when I was getting flirted with, this kid likely won't either.
That means you should be a bit more obvious about it. Tell him. Don't jump out with "love", but something along the lines of "I like you alot and friends isn't enough" wouldn't be unreasonable. Probably sounds scary, believe me I get that, but it sounds like you already told him no. If that's true, he might well be completely backed off, and since you told him no at some point up front you're going to have to be up front about the fact that it's actually a yes.
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