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Cancelled Plans
I went out with this guy last night, and I thought things really went great. He kept putting his arms around me, kissing me, holding my hand, etc. We had a really good time, and toward the end of the night he asked me if I wanted to hang out the next night (which would be tonight). So when we were leaving he walked me to my car and kissed me good bye and said he'd text me. So I went home, didn't hear from him all night which I figured would happen because he went out with his friends. I woke up early this morning, and around 12 I still hadn't heard from him, so I texted and asked if he still wanted to get together. He didn't respond. So when I got home around 2, I called, and he'd been sleeping. Alright, no big deal. So I asked if he wanted to get together and said I wanted to see him and he said "I really want to see you as well but I'm pretty busy tonight." Then when I called him around 9, he was just dog-sitting. I don't know what to think. What does this mean? Did he cancel on me or did he just get busy?
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you should relax a little. i think you should borrow my rule. once you try once (like call him or whatever) if he doesnt respond you dont do anything more until he contancts you. u dont wanna seem needy. im sure since durring the date he seemed like he liked you and he asked to hang out with you the next that that he actually ment that and something probably just came up. give him some time and im sure hel explain.
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I doubt that he was dog-sitting, he probably decided to hang out with his guy friends instead or something to that effect, but in the future it's not a good idea to call him twice and text him once in a day. I understand that you called the first time around 10 am, which is fine, but after that, let him call you back/chase you. Don't bother calling or texting him for the next three days. If he texts you within the next three days, act like you may be busy. This will want him to chase you and think about you. After this then hang out with him.
Good luck :)
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