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Gay
im male 16 and im gay i have a boyfriend hes 17 we have a great relationship we really love each other and we havent told anyone yet my parents keep asking me when im gonna get a girlfriend you should bring a girl home it bugs me a bit i just make up something im not ready yet to tell anyone that im gay im not sure how to bring it up how do i get them from bugging me? what should i do?
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First off, I'd like to congratulate you on having a great relationship with your boyfriend. Good relationships are hard to come by and it would be wonderful if people could appreciate it, whether its between a girl and a boy or a boy and a boy.
If you don't want to tell them yet, it's your choice. If you feel like they are the type of parents that would overreact and do something as drastic as kicking you out of the house, telling them now could be a bad idea. Sometimes the best time to admit it is when you are independent and their influence on you isn't quite so heavy.
If they bug you, you could say that you want to keep your relationships private, or you're to busy to date with schoolwork/sports etc. But parents are nosey and will probably continue to bug you about it. If you are considering "coming out", let me know and I'll try to help you find ways of talking to your parents about it.
Good luck,
-Abby
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