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How to find a boyfriend? im a 17 year old gay male and ive accepted who i am i havent told anyone yet im nervous to talk especially my parents im not sure if they will accept it and i feel lonely sometimes i really want a boyfriend but im not sure whos gay none of the guys i know have come out im unsure what to do how do i find out which guys are gay what can i do to find the right guy?
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Well this is very difficult because it can be VERY hard to tell what guys are and what guys aren't. I have gay friends, girls and guys, and I have found that girls are more open about their sexuality then guys are. This is because it is still very taboo for gay males in this day and age. The best way to find gay guys in your area is online. People are a lot more open online about their personal lives then in person in public. It is a lot harder to know someone's sexual preferences when you first meet them, so breaking the ice online and meeting guys that way is A LOT easier! Also, I seriously suggest speaking to your parents first before looking to date. It is not easy to try and date someone if your parents do not know. It will be a lot harder to open up to them and tell them after you are dating someone. Do you live with both parents? Or just one? Are they very conservative? And which one are you closer to and would feel might be easier to talk to? Which ever one is easier to talk to I would speak to them first. And then they can help you break it to the other parent. I am also curious? Have you been with a guy before or have you just came to terms that you are just physically attracted to a guy? ]
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