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Amazing & Great. (Ha)
Okay so I'm going to jump straight into the water;;
I've had two guys tell me all this stuff about how amazing I am, and how I'm such a great person and etc etc.
& They know that they don't have to fill my head with that bs because no matter I'm here for them and they could have me at any second they wanted.
So I just don't get it, they tell me all this stuff... but yet they won't just be with me. I understand why one of them isn't (Let's name him John Doe)
I've known John Doe since I was 7, we started getting intimate and became best friends a little after I turned 16... And I'm okay with what me and him have...
Then there is lets name him Waka Flocka.
Waka Flocka and I were dating for a month, and we spent every day together pretty much, and if we weren't together we were talking on the phone. And he told me he loved me, and all this stuff, then he left me for ex, and now his ex is confused cause she also has somebody she is currently dating.. Which I am not mad about, and I understand the whole situation, and me and him have talked about it.. and I told him how I felt and stuff and he did the same. He's confused, cause he was ready to marry her and all this stuff, and then he met me and really likes me and she F'd that all up. because she couldnt stand to see him with someone else... so now he doesn't know what to do, and he tells me how he doesn't know why I want him because he F'd us all up and treated badly in the end, and calls himself a dumba** because he F'd up things with me even though he really liked/likes me.. etc etc.
& i understand he's confused but why fill my head up with the bs..
can any one explain it to me? And this might help, i dont know.. but me & these two guys are extremely close. We tell each other everything.! we even talk about other relationships we'll currently be in... that's one reason I love these guys so much because our whole relationships are based on honesty and there are no trust issues what so ever.. so the question is:: why are they filling up my head with things like im such a wonderful girl, and any guy is stupid for leaving me, and etc etc. when they clearly don't want me, yet they won't let me go. (if that makes any sense what so ever.)
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Are you sleeping with either or both of these guys? If the answer is yes, then there's your answer. Every guy, no matter how nice he is in other circumstances, will say whatever he thinks a girl wants to hear to get into her pants. If you're not sleeping with them, I have a couple of theories about why they'd act like this, but my gut is telling me you are and that is complicating things for you. What does YOUR gut tell you?
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