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Falling in love with my pastor
I told my pastor that i' ve been attracted to him for a while.
Every time I see him at church were very friendly with eac other and we even flirt with eye contact. He told me to email him during the week. I now have stronger feelings for him than before. I feel like I'm in love with him. How do I cope
with these feelings. I'm afraid to tell him that the attraction grew to love. I don't want to loose him as a friend. Help!!! Thanks!!!
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What you are feeling is lust, or just a general crush. It is much too soon to be love, even though it feels so great. Don't tell him of these feelings and let the relationship progress naturally. You may find that you are in love with the idea of him and you together and not him for who he is, or just excited at the prospect of a new relationship. Telling him you love him will scare him off. Just enjoy the ride and don't make any aggressive moves just yet.
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