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Why is this happening to me? :(((
16/f
No matter how hard I try to find love it just keeps avoiding me.I see all the couples around me,happy,holding hands and kissing and I feel jealous,or just burst into tears.Whenever I like someone now,they just end up being jerks to me.I had a few relationships but that's something I don't wanna remember.I try my hardest to attract someone I could like being with but I fail every single time...ofc I try to be subtle and all but it's like I'm invisible.I'm good-looking and smart,but I feel like I'm the exact opposite by the way I've been treated.Why me? I just want to be happy in love for once.and it never happens.I just get treated like dirt every time.
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i know how you feel. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont. it feels lonely and i feel left out. but look on the bright side, you don't have to go through all the troubles with a guy. you won't have drama with him, or worry about him cheating on you. be strong and confident in yourself. the time will come when it is right. you're 16, you have a whole life ahead of you, you don't need a guy to make you feel good. You have friends and family who love you dearly. just keep your head up high and your time will come. don't be in a rush to find one, because my friends now, somehow always say "i wish i was single so i can hang out with my other friends" or "i wish i was single because i wanna go out and have some fun" having a boyfriend isnt always a good idea.
I hope this helps you(:
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When you are young its hard to understand that life is just beginning for you and there are so many roads to choose to go down. Confidence and the ability to enjoy your own company as well as the company of others will give you the strength and ability to stand alone or play well with others. No matter how beautiful you are on the outside needing to be loved and being in love are not the same and needing love to make you whole has a tendency to be unattractive and a target for those willing to play on your weakness to get what they want. Focus on yourself, your future and success and take this time to enjoy the sunshine and life and when that day comes that you feel what real love feels like you will also realize whether you had to wait a day or many years the wait was worth it.
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at this age most guys are not looking for a long relationship and are totally serious about. there are a few dont get me wrong. but most are all about sex and the facts of having a girlfriend you shouldnt try to hard to make someone like you they either do or dont and if you make it obvious its like kinda a wierd. i'm sure your beautiful and that just guys are being guys you should just be you and not try it will happen on its own. what your not looking for is what will come to you. enjoy being single and making friends this is when you can talk to more than one guy and not matter.it sux that you were treated bad im sorry idk why guys are jerks they like to play from girl to gril. it will happen thou no worries just stay calm and remember your still young and have years to come for LOVE. for now you have your friends to love you and family
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