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i don't know if i should take my ex back
I've dated my ex gf for 4yrs. Just recently about four months ago i had her bf come to me and tell me what she knew. Turns out most of our relationship my ex had been cheating. Well cheating ever since i went into the military after that things were different. So my ex wrote me about a week ago saying she's sorry and wants me in her life. I've met a new girl lately but i tell her Im not ready to be in another relationship but i just don't know what i want i think Im still in love w my ex. How should i respond my exes email?
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I think you already know the answer to this question. Your gut is telling you this girl had her own interests at heart, not yours. It hurts. You didn't deserve it and you can't just turn off your feelings overnight. However, the more space you put between yourself and this girl, the easier it will get, I promise. Next time she emails you tell her you appreciate her apologies and you don't want to spend your life being angry at her. Then tell her you hope the next time she finds a guy as loyal and devoted as you were that she'll learn from this experience and treat him a lot better than she treated you. Then walk away and concentrate on feeling better. Its very mature of you to tell the new girl you're not ready for a relationship. However, there's nothing wrong with just getting out there a bit and hanging out with friends and enjoying yourself. It will help distract you from the backstabbing cheater you let yourself love.
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