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Forgiving My Best Friend.
Im 18 male she is 15. Sorry if this is long by the way.
So we have been friends for a few years now and are super close. She has had a few boyfriends while I have stayed single. We know everything about each other and talk 24/7. We flirt alot and tease each other and stuff even if she is with a guy. Since September 09 I told her I like her more then friends and I love her more then bestfriends and it seems like she has mixed emotions about it. I saw her a few weeks ago and we were alone in her house and she laid on me while watching a movie and i kissed her and we ended up making out and doing other things. Then when i get home she phones me and said she made a big mistake and she has a boyfriend im like oh im sorry and shes like whatever it was so hard to pull away from you. She then broke up with her bf and we continued to be friends like we have been from the begining. Then last week we talked all night and she said she does not want another relationship again then the next morning i hear that shes back with her ex. I told her im sick of her crap, lies and that she broke my heart. We have not talked since and i do not know what to do. its the not first time she has lied to me or really hurt me but i like her and love her so much. I do not know if i want her in my life any more or i can ever forget her. What should I do?.
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Hi sorry for what happened. Well if she doesn't feel the same way as you do it's better you stop feeling for her and forget her. There's someone out there for you and it's not her. You should take a break from her, don't push yourself to talk to her. What she did is not right. You should have never let her hurt you in the first place. Just forget her and everything else, start new. Don't think about it, feel bad and waste your life.
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That's tough. I can't relate exactly, but I know it's hard to break it off with a good friend you love. But I did it. You have to do what is honestly best for you. If you aren't getting anything beneficial out of this relationship.. then move on. I'm not saying to stop talking to her, maybe just don't go out of your way to see her. You don't want to loose a best friend, but is she really acting like one? Nobody can make this decision, but you. I hope this input helped though.
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