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mixed signals
last school year... i met this boy i'll call him "jeff". Well i really really really really really hated "jeff". Well he hated me too. But in the middle of the year... my hormones took over and i fell for him.
Well now its summer and he unblocked me (he had nme blocked on aim the whole school year) and he said hi and i said why are you talking to me? he said "oh i dont care about school stuff anymore...how are you?" and we talked for like 2 hours like we were best friends. Then like a week later he imed me and was like I HATE YOU and unblocked me. Then yesterday he unblocked me and we talked for 3 hours!!!
i really really like him and i cant tell if he still hates me!!!!
i rate high!
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Dear Mixed signals,
Sounds like your hormones are very talkative. They are telling you ~hey, look at that terrific guy Jeff. He's so hot, isn't he? But your intuition had already told you way before that Jeff actually wasn't such a nice guy. See, there was something within you that told you the truth. Now, you can see you were correct. Many times, we do not listen to our gut instinct, our intuition. We are actually more intelligent than we give ourselves credit.
Listen to your instinct and put a muzzle on those hormones. They'll lead you wrong every time.
Take care,
DeeplySetting
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Hi :)
Don't waste your time with Jeff. Seriously. It seems like he only comes back to you when he's bored, or needs something from you. If I were you, I would just forget about him. Don't answer to his IM's so quickly. As a matter of fact, next time he says he hates you or whatever, ask him why he says that, and what did you do to make him upset. If he doesn't respond and blocks you, just BLOCK HIM. You don't need him, and I'm sure you have plenty friends to keep your mind off him. He's playing games. I would just push the Jeff idea to the side and find a great guy who I could be friends with and maybe more after time. Good luck!
Uniq :)
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