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he makes me want him sooo bad.
18, female. If this is long, sorry i'll return the favor!
I'm just going to go out and say this .. i'm sexually frustrated!! Haha okay so there's this guy. Well i'm not going to lie he's a typical teenage guy and it kind of turns me on. Like when we're hanging out .. even around people .. we'll be talking and for some reason it always ends up sexual. Like he was like okay i have to shower .. sammy lets go shower together and we both started laughing and I was like yeah okay lets go .. although we didn't. Or we were just playing a fun game of PIG in basketball and I was texting haha and he was like hurry up sam and I was like I'm COMING!! And he was like oh are you sammy ;) and then we were just messing around and he just kept grabbing me and touching me and then at dinner we were with a bunch of people and we were sitting next to each other and I was like let me get one of your wings! and he was like only if you fuck me ;) and I was like okay ;) and I was like so give me one and he was like no you have to fuck me first and I was like how am I going to do that first when we're at a restauraunt and he was like i'll save it for you lol and then we went on to something else. Just things like that happpen .. we obviously both want each other but NOTHING EVER HAPPENS! and he always starts the sexual talk and touching too .. i seriously want him so bad and it's not like i'm saying "NO!"
Don't judge our friendship, don't call me a whore or a slut i've only slept with one guy and he's only slept with one girl .. we have so much fun together and he always turns me on. We don't really hang out at each other's houses alone, it's not us .. so it's not like we can just do it when things get heavy haha becuase we're usually in public. How can I make this happen!! Maybe he thinks i'm joking .. how can I let him know I'm being completely serious? He'll even text me sometimes and be like wanna fuck? and I'll even text back like hell yeah! and then we'll end up talking about something else.
Don't tell me NOT to do it, i'm going to either way I'm just asking how I can actually make it happen.
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I have to say that you shouldn't get your hopes up about this guy. if he's always changing the subject when you guys talk about that kind of stuff, he's obviously not that serious. You also mention that you guys only hang out in public. well you wanted to take it a step further, so ask him to hang out privately. like just you 2. go on a date. get alone with each other. take it one step at a time.
now here's the catch, don't get head over heels for him unless you 100% know that he's into you and wants you too. some guys just want to get with the girl and play with her and tease her. lead her on. i know you said that he's only slept with 1 girl. but how many girls has he lead on? how many girls has he flirted with and said he wanted to fuck, but never actually did? how do you know that you're not just another one of those girls who he flirts with. you gotta know for sure that you're different.
once you know that you're not just another girl, it's time to move forward. let fate take its path. whatever happens happens. you can't plan things out. you can't say "ok first we will kiss, then …, then… and eventually do it.." you just gotta let it go by nature. and besides, its more special if its spontaneous and not planned out.
hope i helpled!
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Hi :)
Lol well, hormones are all over the place, especially with someone you haven't had yet!! I would say, ask him to hang out with you, one on one. For example, ask him if he wants to go hang out at the park, or watch movies at your place. Once you're somewhere you won't get fined for having sexy time, the opportunity may rise. Perhaps watching a movie at home together, you can get close and cuddle. Lean in for a kiss, and so on. If your place isn't free, try his. And if his isn't free, then you're gonna have to find some place lmao. Usually when two people are alone in a house, things may happen if it's mutual. Just make sure that these sexual feelings don't develop into something emotional, because it's all a joke as of now. It doesn't seem like he's looking for a relationship, just more of a fun time. Good luck, and hope I helped!
Uniq :)
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