I'm trying to avoid my ex who broke up with me a little over a week ago,we are still friends and stuff because if we hated eachother ..he probably would't come back to me.But i have a class with him and he talks to me all the time..it's so hard not to talk to him ( i obviously want to ,but im trying to play the "ignore" game ) I don't wanna be mean to him ofcourse because he isn't gonna miss me if im a bitch so im nice when i talk with him. Does anyone have a success story from playing the "hard to get" game after your boyfriend has broke up with you? i want to know if there's still hope! Tell me your story please!
If he loves you, he'll come back. Simple as that. Unless of course he's either coming back for sex. And last, but not least, the relationship wasn't as good as he thought it would be, therefore he is fine with the way things are now.
I have tried this method before, and it honestly did work. I was going through many emotional struggles at the time, and the thing is whenever I get into a relationship, I give it my all. I'm really nice and caring, so when guys want that and don't have it, they start missing it. Also, if they know you're a great girl, they won't want some other guy coming along and stealing you. That is, of course, if they intend to have a serious long term relationship.
My advice: Strut your stuff, treat him as JUST a friend, and show interest in other guys. If he doesn't come back, then so be it. You can still meet other people ;)
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