omg thank you sooooo muchhhhhhh this wasss so helpful :) everything you said here is 100% true..your tiping like if you know me in real life this is just how i feel :) your too smart :0 omg am just impressed by this words.. :) his brother has a girlfriend and he cheets on her too, but they been together for 4 yrs , i envy he so muh because she is just lucky :( i wished someday i had a perfect life but right now i fell blahh like nothing is even worth it . i do miss my ex boyfriend soo much that i will do anything to be with him :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lola answered Tuesday April 6 2010, 1:49 am: Your just stopping there and not moving on because you see nothing there ahead of you for you to move on, so your stuck at the same point, just missing your ex and really wanting him .But once you meet someone else or fill up your life with something that takes up your time and occupies it, you will start to move on and all this will just seem like so yesterday.
Why not get to know someone new,meet new people, hang out with your friends, you know sometimes, being in a relationship isn't everything to life, sometimes being single comes with advantages,seeing that relationships bring nothing but trouble.
And you shouldn't envy that girl, because she's so not lucky, i mean, yes they might have been together for 4 years now, but imagine if she finds out that he's cheating on her, these 4 years will seem nothing but a waste of 4 years of her life with someone unloyal and low and when all this time she thought he loved her and cared for her, he's actually sleeping with someone else.
There will come a time, when your life will take a change, and you'll meet someone who you'll love and who will love you back, and thats the most important thing, and he'll be decent and loyal to you, and you'll be really happy then. But no one has a perfect life, and that girl your envying is no exception, you think her life is perfect? Perfect is just something we see and believe that it is, but its actually only on the outside, its different when you actually get closer to it.
Give yourself a chance, and don't rush into things, your still young and you haven't experienced anything yet, there is so much to come, and life doesn't stop because you lost someone who isn't even worth it to begin with.
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