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Hi
I asked you the inbox question about scared to break up with my bf. I liked your advice, so I have one more question.
I talked to him today, told him I WOULDN'T break up with him..because he started crying. I know, i know, I fell for the trap. I used the 'dad doesnt approve excuse' and the boy just went nuts. Said he'd talk to my dad, blah blah. It just got worse.
So I told him i wouldn't break u with him, and now I hate myself for it. I hate myself for ever lying in the 1st place, i WANT to break up with him. Should I just say: I don't love you anymore, I want to end it?!
I mean, who can really reject that? He'll HAVe to let me go right? I'm so sick of this, any help would be appreciated please, thank you!!!
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Hey there,
Thanks :) ... Alright well I guess he really does care about you. Guys cry, but whether or not they are doing something behind your back, it's because they care :/
You already read my advice on talking to him... I'm guessing you don't want to take that route. (although I HIGHLY suggest it!)
In that case, I guess you're going to have to get rough with him. I don't know what age you are, nor your long distance boyfriend. So perhaps this excuse won't work. Tell him you're not ready for a long distance relationship. Tell him it's best you both part ways and forget about each other. DO NOT REMAIN FRIENDS. Don't pick up his calls, don't respond to his IM's and Texts. Just pretend he NEVER existed and that you disappeared off the face of the earth. Hopefully he gets the hint doesn't stalk you. Also, be careful. Hopefully he doesn't know your address either. No one can force you to stay in a relationship. I'm 18 right now turning 19, and I remember being 14 years old in a sort of long distance relationship with an 18 year old, who would manipulate me by crying and making me feel bad, saying he loved me and needed me. Sometimes, YOU have to be the strong one, although it may be hard. Good luck!
Uniq :)
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