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One sided relationship..


Question Posted Saturday March 6 2010, 12:30 pm

I had this boyfriend, and he said it was true love. But we broke up, because I've disappointed him, by believing a rumor that wasn't true, and by cutting myself, and then breaking a promise about not doing it again. He was going to give me another chance but, I broke the promise.

He says he doesn't like anyone else, but he constantly flirts with these two girls at school. I really like him. I should probably say love. So, I really love him, and I want us to be together again. But he says he wouldn't get back together with me until after a year or so. He says his life is really busy but, again, he flirts with those two girls.

What should I do? Should I try and get him back, or should I just move on and give up?


Thanks for the help.


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mollyschroeder answered Saturday March 13 2010, 12:06 am:
First of all, cutting yourself is never the answer to anything. It just makes you feel worse and it doesn't solve the problem. Second, the guy you like may not be flirting at all. Take this from me, i have friends that are girls and i talk to them in a way that seems to others as if i am flirting with them, but i'm really not. I am just having fun and being a good friend. The guy you like may be doing the exact same thing. As far as getting back together, never give up. There is always hope and until he tells you directly that he doesn't like you anymore, it's not over yet. If you really like him, you will wait the year or so. Bring up your relationship every now and then, but don't come on too strong, don't sound desperate. Hang in there, if you two really like each other, you'll get back together again. Remember, the whole or part of the reason he broke it off was the promise. Prove to him you can keep it again. Good luck.

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