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Does my friend value THINGS more than our friendship?
I have had this friend for 17 years. She is a shopaholic. she has also bought me gifts over the years. I recently took 4 peices of costume jewlrey she bought me years ago, and sold tem on ebay. I needed money and I had never worn these peices. Now she has demanded all of the things she bought me back and says that I don't deserve any of it. And has ended our friendship. Did I really do something so bad? Does she value these things more than our friendship? What should I do?
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just talk to her and say ''thanks for all the stuff you get me if you are keeping on doing thisthen it is not going to work out with us then we can't be friends any more
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if she got them for you, and you sold them, i would be slight offended if i were here. Really, she thinks YOU value MONEY over YOUR friendship. It suggests that you find money more valuable, simply because you didnt realise the sentimental value of the gift she got you, because you sold it, and it didnt mean anything to you. I assume that is what she is thinking.
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